Dan vs Barry has been booked as a boxing match.
Dan no shows
It would not be acceptable for Barry to punch Dan outside the boxing ring even though Dan agreed to the match and no-showed

The two points from my first reply in this thread still stand:
* "bullies" being nasty to someone because they belive the deserve it, is not much different to "bullies" being nasty to a random for entertainment - i.e. the difference between this and balls of steel is not much
* making comments which besmersh a lady's honour is not accptable just because the lady has done fetish modelling